The Moment I Knew…

Our relationship started as a fluke of sorts… after I stalked him for a little while… he took the bait… and we eventually decided to make it official. Not looking for anything, I’d often talk to my best friend Tiffany about how we’d be each other’s Valentine for the following February because we were both […]

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Sometimes I Love My Job…

While speaking with a gentleman this afternoon at my hotel job, he mentioned he and his wife were coming to Miami to celebrate 25 years of marriage. Pause. Yes, let that soak in. TWENTY-FIVE YEARS OF MARRIAGE♥ So, after congratulating him, I expressed how they should go ALL OUT because that is a very momentous […]

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3653 Days ♥♥♥

It is officially our 10 YEAR anniversary! In 10 years sooooo much as changed within our relationship (as it should). We have grown from boyfriend and girlfriend to husband and wife. We are the parents of 2 phenomenal children. We are blessed beyond measure and our experiences together these past 10 years have proven that […]

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What I KNOW To Be True…

Just so we are clear: Just like I did not know Trayvon Martin personally, I do not know or care to know his murderer personally either. However, I have been black for 27 years and I do KNOW, without a shadow of a doubt, that racism is real. I do know racial profiling exists. I […]

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4 Years Later…

  Today marks 4 YEARS of marriage with the love of my life. One thing I have learned over the years  is that love is one long sweet dream and marriage is the alarm clock. Marriage is nothing like you anticipate. Although you say your vows, you never really put them into perspective until you […]

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Nightmares Suck!

    Life is short… I get that. However, the reality of its brevity crept into my dreams last night. And I hated it. I have had crazy dreams before… but the pain of that dream NIGHTMARE was all too real. See… my husband was murdered last night… Shot in the head… right in front […]

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